We must!

We have to be ourselves and sometimes it's a violation of another's beliefs and sometimes it's violation of our own but stripped from the desire to be desired you are left with yourself. Do you want to nurture yourself or loathe yourself- the choice is ours alone. We need to enjoy others as they need to enjoy us... Completely happy human beings who are not shiny and plastic, but made of flesh and bone and maybe teary eyed sometimes. To share our lives. It's only then if we know we are capable of human connection and love.